Category Archives: Lifestyle/Health

Walkathon, another “OMG I was so drunk and…” story

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Somehow, exchanging drunk anecdotes proves to be devastatingly fun. Not only do we find solidarity in shared misery (oh yes, those hangovers), we relish outdoing our friends. The crazier, the more ridiculous the “oh-I-was-so-drunk” feat is, the better.

Let’s see, among my friends, one fell flat on her face running down Market Street in San Francisco, and another mistook a police car for a taxi. But nothing nowadays beats the late-1800s, where competitive walking was the craze. In fact, competitors walked — buzzed on Champagne  Continue reading

Bring ‘MAN-ly’ back with this hunky… CHIN

Work out the tris, pecs and lats, none speak louder of your manhood than having a strong jaw. In an article published by Details magazine, “Is Your Jaw Man Enough?” (Sept. 2014), it reports that the number men seeking jaw augmentation — injecting cosmetic fillers into the jaw — has increased 32% in 2013, according to the American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery (ASAPS). The ASAP observed in its 2013 statistical data:

Men had more than 1 million cosmetic procedures, 9.4% of the total. The number of cosmetic procedures for men increased over 273% from 1997.

Read previous blog post: Youth-obsessed, Look and Feel Young

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A round of treatment, consisting of six vials ($1,500 per vial of filler), costs $9,000. The benefit? A manly jaw attracts women and men alike. Women see the trait as a sign of health, gene quality, strength and reproductive potential — a virile sex machine. As for men, strong jaw signals that submission, “This man is a leader.” The top six most desirable men, jaw-based of course. (Details magazine) Continue reading

Aging in a youth-obsessed society, the battle to look and feel young

Our society celebrates youth. Youth equates beauty, creativity, energy, fun and delicious cool. Even in the media, lists such as Forbes‘ and TIME‘s 30 Under 30 elevate those who succeeds when they are very young.

Women obsess over looking younger, whereas men obsess over feeling younger (image credit: Beautifulforever Aesthetic Laser Center)

In an article titled “Women would rather hear they look young than slim” (DailyMail), the following list was posted:

  • Two thirds of women use anti-aging products
  • One fifth worry about their age every day
  • 41% wish they look younger
  • 39.5 years old is when women are most worried about how old they look

Interestingly, while women obsess over their appearance (as evidenced by anti-aging specialist Uzzi Reiss’ book title, Natural Hormone Balance for Women: Look Younger, Feel Stronger, and Live Life with Exuberance), men strive to feel younger. Continue reading

Discover the Art of Tea Pairing at Tea Time

Tea drinking is an integral part of Chinese culture. A Chinese saying names tea as one of the seven basic daily necessities; tea is as important as firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, and vinegar. During the mid-Tang Dynasty (780 A.D.), a scholar named Lu Yu published Cha Ching, or The Tea Classic. Having spent over twenty years studying the subject, Lu records his knowledge of planting, processing, tasting, and brewing tea. The monumental work, which fastidiously documents the history, place of origin, color, taste and benefits of each individual tea, is an unparalleled tea encyclopedia.

In comparison, tea plays a less prominent role in American society. Yet, tea drinking offers a plethora of benefits such as fewer signs of aging and decrease in cholesterol and blood pressure.  Thirsting for a cup of tea? Go no farther than Tea Time (downtown Palo Alto).

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The small, quaint tea room is great for tea lovers and ideal for the subtle affair of appreciating a variety of tea and their distinctive characteristics. I am here for my introductory course to tea pairing. Have you ever tried tea pairing? Like wine, tea pairs well with food. The key is to match the flavor profile of a particular tea to its complementary food flavors. Join me and sample your way through six courses of tea and food combinations (click HERE for tasting menu).

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Spice up your life! (literally, with spices)

Spice Girls are probably not singing about spices in “Spice Up your Life,” but you can bet that spices — red chili, nutmeg, oregano, thyme, etc., make a big difference in enhancing the flavors of life.

Spices do more than add flavor to foods, they stimulate the senses (smell, taste), serve as aphrodisiacs, and much more. From Psychology Today, spices and their health benefits. (“The Spice of Life.” Psychology Today Nov. 2012: 48-49. Print.)

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Men say ‘I love you’ first, but women love longer

According to study (“The Love Code.” Psychology Today Sept. 2011: 16. Print.), men start thinking about professing their love about three months into the relationship whereas women start thinking about it around five months into the relationship. 

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From an evolutionary standpoint, women’s reservedness makes sense — women have a lot more to lose from committing to a potential mate.

Come to think of it, the word ‘love‘ is quite the great intangible. Not only do we use the word rather carelessly — “I love ice cream”; “I love my boyfriend/girlfriend”; “I love my new boots”; we also lack synonyms to categorize increments of love (“How much do you love me?” — a little? a lot? how much?).

If you are interested in learning about love, try Diane Ackerman’s A Natural History of Love. This ambitious work tries to analyze, describe love; it takes a look at  the various aspects, such as history, literature, and neurophysiology, of this complex emotion.

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“Thank you!” for this 19th Century Invention: Vibrator

Hysteria is a psychological condition that displays uncontrolled outburst of emotion and behaviors. The term, for the majority (4000+ years) of the history, was regarded as a sex-selective disorder, affecting only women.

What were some of the outdated theories behind “female” hysteria? There was the uterus theory, which claimed the female sex organ was to be blame for female problems like anxiety, insomnia, depression, irritability and fainting.  There was also Sigmund Freud’s famous ‘Oedipal moment of recognition’ theory, which stated that women experienced hysteria because they were unable to reconcile the loss of their (metaphoric) penis.

With that introduction in mind, I’d like to share with you Hystera (2011). The film, Official Selection for both Toronto and Tribeca Film Festival, looked at a time in history when female hysteria was a common medical diagnosis, and the prevalence of the condition also led to the creation of vibrators.

Women suffering from hysteria (Photo Credit: Wikipedia)

Women suffering from hysteria (Photo Credit: Wikipedia)

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